BBQ Harassment At Lake Merritt In Oakland Follow Up Story. Backstory: In this video I explain what happen to that card and why it was so important to get it back before she took a picture of it. Then I show all the footage I got at Lake Merritt for the BBQ’n While Black event. Next time I will explain how I came up with this strategy of dealing with harassment. This is not my first time confronting someone for being racist. We (my husband and I) used to go to the crazy “Battle of Berkeley” rallies and I started a technique of confronting propagandists in their Livestream.